Friday, 4 January 2013

Life post three-The feeling if failure.

Failure - is the state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objective, and may be viewed as the opposite of success.

The feeling of failure is something I have pretty much all of the time it can because of the smallest thing in the world like spelling something wrong.

For someone with confidence as low as mine this is one of the worst things ever as being my age you need to have a job in order to do things, after being let go from my old job for not being confident enough this is scary as to get a job you need to have an interview which means putting yourself out there and talking about yourself in front of strangers and when the interview is over the feeling of failure comes over and you worry about what they thought of you and if your get the job.

People always say you need to believe in your self and what you do which is impossible if you think your ping to fail before you even start.

To feel less of a failure you need to think positive (which is hard) about what you have done for example 'I didn't get the job'- 'at least I have some interview practice and now know what I should do next time'.
This may sound hard and I know it is but it's going to take time and in the log run you will feel better about what you do and it will be worth it because you will become more confident.

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